Suicides is not a Solution !!

Most people find their lives purposeless, wasted and worthless. That is why with a ordinary illness or some slightly unfavorable situation, the individual prays for an end to his life.

In the opinion of psychologist, every person thinks of committing suicide more than once in his life. It is a different thing that he does not develop enough courage to end his life.

Even then some impulsive persons commit suicide because of petty reason like failing in examination, losing a job, quarrels in the family of defeat in a court of law. The number of people committing suicide because of such reasons is on the increase.

The real question is, why do people commit suicide?

Psychologists give various answers to this question. Also it is debatable topic. Some of the reasons among many are:

• Man gets frightened on seeing disappointing atmosphere everywhere around him that he does not find any solution except this.

• According to some psychiatrists, people with violent tendencies who are unable to express them, destroy themselves by these tendencies.

• Some persons find themselves so much lonely and helpless that they find no benefit in living and they think, ‘Why not to commit suicide?

• Some persons think of committing suicides during emotional excitement and prepare a plan for suicide during such a condition.

• A tendency of revenge may become the one of the reason for doing suicide. According to this opinion some member of the family commits suicide to teach a lesson to other members.

• Some people commit suicide because of a burden of feeling guilty, since they are unable to find a solution to get rid of guilty-feelings.

• Many others commit suicide because they are fed up of old age, rejection by spouse, unemployment, court cases etc.

The main reason for suicides is said to be depression due to any reason, whether due to physical illness or failure in examination, love or competition. When a person experience life as worthless and burden then to free himself from this person may think of self destruction.

Worthlessness feeling of life gives rise to the wish for suicide. This also gives the evident of fact that man wants to keep only useful things which are worth keeping. No body likes to keep worthless dirt with him. Therefore when life is found worthless, then man tends to destroy rather than save it.

The question arises, ‘Is life so much worthless that by disappointment in small matters, one should think of ending it?’ It is a fact that every person finds many times that his life is worthless and a burden.

There is another kind of life, like a flower which keeps on spreading its fragrance all rounds from the time it flowers forth till it falls to the ground. Life is like a river, which keeps on flowing from its source to its merger into the sea.

People with mental strength can go ahead even in adverse conditions arrives where as mentally weak person become disappointed.

There is no doubt that all the things in this world is achievable. But for achieving them, worthiness is required. Worthiness is created only by constant efforts. There is no scarcity of knowledge in the world, but there is a scarcity of that intellectual capacity because of which we are not capable of attaining it. That capacity has to be developed by constant education.

Nutritious food is certainly essential for keeping the body healthy, but even more essential is the stability of mental condition. Nourishment gives energy and energy provides health. However the essential source of energy is the brain which provides not only the energy for digesting the food but to keep all the organs of the body working in organized coordination.

Howsoever nourishing the food, it will not give any benefit if the mind is upset. On the contrary when the mental condition is peaceful and balanced, health can be maintained event with meager simple food.

A smile on the face is God’s visible blessing to man. One who smiles and makes others smile is full of magnetism, spreading fragrance around him like a lotus. This is one’s own creation. If it is made a part of one’s nature and firmly practiced, then one’s personality becomes uncommonly beautiful. Neither can old age snatch it nor is it affected amidst difficulties.

Life is precious don’t waste it, instead invest in helping helpless persons.

  

Remember: Suicide is a crime against law and nature both.